Since getting pregnant with my first daughter over 8 years ago (!) and now heading into my 4th birth at the end of this year (!), I have been collecting resources regarding healthy pregnancies, natural childbirth, the initial parenting years, and all manner of controversial stuff that you never knew was a part of having children – until you started having children. And because of my fascination and promotion of these subjects from an alternative, non-mainstream slant, I continually get emails from
newly pregnant family, friends, and acquaintances asking for a variety of resources. So I have finally decided to add it to this blog in its ever-changing form.
So enjoy this overwhelming, yet finite list of baby interesting-ness and please add your favorite go-to resources in the comments below.
In 2008, after almost 5 years of membership, I wrote the following letter to our awesome church after a wonderful but sugar-filled retreat. I questioned the disconnect between wanting to nourish our kids spiritually while pumping their little temples full of crap food. I challenged the church to view food as a justice issue. I gave suggestions for alternative snack options. And, to the credit of the leadership, they took me up on my suggestions… and promptly put me in charge of kids snacks for the next retreat. The squeaky wheel gets the grease – and sometimes the responsibility. =)
Though (as a whole) we’re a little late to the party, Christians in large numbers, are starting to notice that food matters to God. Continue reading
Since the 2nd miscarriage I’ve been doing surprisingly okay, I thought.
As soon as the first baby passed, I cried instantly. It triggered a deep sobbing that lasted longer than I can remember ever crying. But with the 2nd I seemed to feel more resigned to what was happening – not a lot of bitterness, questioning of God, etc. After the first, God had spoken very clearly to me, “I am going to use this miscarriage for My glory.” And He has – in numerous ways. And I believe that is still true with this one.
But the grieving has felt different. Continue reading
I am a definitely a member of the “let our kids have their childhoods back” choir that nature-loving Richard Louv and stranger-danger poo poo-er Lenore Skenazy have been preaching to. In contrast to the security guard who would not let my kids climb a tempting tree on public property because they might hurt themselves, I submit a wise mom’s reaction to her child’s own tree-fall injury: “What a great way to break your arm!”
But since the “Stranger-danger-is-all-but-a-figment-of-your-cowardly-imagination, you-freak!” message has recently gained some momentum, I’m sensing some imbalance in the movement. I’ve always rooted for the underdog, been a voice for the voiceless – and I’m feeling like normal, albeit slightly anxious parents of the world are taking a hit that they don’t deserve. And it’s time for this normal, slightly anxious parent to say something about it.
But first you must know how ironic it is that I am writing this. Continue reading
Baby bump and excited siblings
Alright, birth fans. Here are the glorious details that many of you have been waiting for. If you don’t like Too Much Information specifically regarding bodily fluids, the nether regions and various other birth-type details (no crazy pictures though), then I recommend you go find a post involving a recipe or something. I am the “open book” type and you, my friend, have been warned… Continue reading